I love finding videos of ordinary couples having the kind of uninhibited raw sex that married people have when they’re in the privacy of their own bedrooms. In the real world of married life, sex is a lot less politically correct than it is in porn videos - even the “amateur” videos.

This video is an example from youporn.com (it’s free, like youtube). Here, we have a woman on-top of her man. Yes, she’s older and heavier and not as pretty as your typical amateur porn-star, but she really knows how to enjoy sex.

She’s not riding him in the typical “cowgirl” position. She’s fucking him. She has him pinned to the bed and is doing to him what husbands do their wives every day and don’t talk about.

I do this to Bill, maybe once every couple of months. I have to be in just the right mood. Normally, I’m on my back with him on top of me, holding me down and putting it to me forcefully. But when I’m on top, this is what it looks like (minus the difference in our ages and bodies).

What I love the most about it is the moment about two thirds of the way through where the guy holds out his hand in a kind of surrender gesture, as if to say, “I’m not resisting! Please don’t hurt me! Do whatever you want!” And that’s exactly what she does. She get’s her orgasm out of him, taking the pleasure she wants. His pleasure in in seeing her enjoy him.

It’s one of those times when we women give our husbands a taste of what it’s like for us - and most husbands love it (I know mine does). I have a lot of admiration for her, whoever she is, that she is willing and able to show us how it’s done. When I first saw this, all I could say was, “you go girl!”.

I’m posting this now, just before I shut down the computer for the night. It’s my sexually aggressive time of the month and I’m on my way into the bedroom to do this to my husband. Our bedroom is sound-proofed, so you aren’t going the hear the screams - neither mine nor his.

God I hope he says, “no”! It’s even hotter that way.