Well, it took me a little bit longer to get this posted than I had anticipated, but here it is: A website full of women (not girls) in very pretty, very sexy lingerie. Best of all, most of it is available in my size (18-20).
 The website is Secrets in Lace. They sell very high-quality, high-end bras, panties, […]

I’m going to start posting some “reviews” of web sites that I find interesting. I enclosed the word “reviews” in quotes because I don’t plan on doing reviews the way most people do. That would be normal - and why would I start acting normal all of a sudden?

Last week I was at a client and experienced one of those “bite my tongue” moments.
As the wrap-up meeting ended, a late-fifties-aged woman waited for most of the others to drift out, then said to me, “I take it ‘Johnson’ is your husband’s name? I would think a woman of your generation and career-mindedness could at […]

I’m beginning to understand that “not spanking” isn’t necessarily the right or best thing when disciplining children. I’ve seen (heard, actually) friends of ours spank their children and do it in such a way that their kids feel loved and cared for and comforted.

Help me, please!
I have a bunch of stories in progress and I can’t decide which one to focus on. Here is a synopsis of some of them. Please comment on which one you think I should finish next. I’ll follow whatever people seem to want.

 I received a wonderful comment from Jais. Instead of replying in the comments section, I decided to make it a new blog entry…

I have a theory that no story is ever completely fictional nor is any story ever completely true. I can’t say that this is an original theory but it’s one that I have wrestled with quite a bit and one that is important to me.
Fictional stories contain elements of the author’s actual experience. You can’t […]

Previously posted at Literotica 
Well, let’s hope my husband doesn’t read this particular entry. He rarely reads my blog and forum stuff but who knows.
I’ve decided to surprise him with a candy-striper fantasy. Once I’ve done it, I’m going to write a story about it.

There is an even more basic reason why I don’t want a safeword: I didn’t have one growing up.

One of the reasons that women in particular feel a need for a safeword is to create a balance of power. Most men are physically stronger than most women. Most men have more economic power than most women.
In a D/s or SM relationship, if the woman is the submissive, she needs her safeword in order […]